I was doing an interview this afternoon, and a thought hit me that I just couldn’t shake. We were talking about that internal feeling, the one that every person who identifies with the crossdressing experience knows all too well. It’s that voice, that presence, that spiritual essence that lives inside of us. For me, she’s Maddie. She isn’t just a character I play or a costume I put on; she’s a part of my soul that’s always there, whether I’m in a three-piece suit or a sequin

Hey there, gorgeous! If you’ve found your way to this corner of the internet, chances are you’re standing at the edge of a very big, very beautiful, and, let’s be real, slightly terrifying diving board. You’re looking down at the pool of self-acceptance, wondering if the water is warm or if you’re about to belly-flop in front of the whole world. First things first: take a breath. You are exactly where you need to be. Whether you identify as a trans woman, a crossdresser, or s

Let me guess, you're reading this because there's a secret you've been carrying around, and it's starting to feel heavier by the day. Maybe you've rehearsed the conversation a thousand times in your head. Maybe you've almost said something, only to chicken out at the last second. Trust me, I've been there. In my latest episode of the My Girl Life podcast , I dove deep into one of the most nerve-wracking experiences many crossdressers and trans women face: telling a partner wh