Hey there, gorgeous! If you’ve found your way to this corner of the internet, chances are you’re standing at the edge of a very big, very beautiful, and, let’s be real, slightly terrifying diving board. You’re looking down at the pool of self-acceptance, wondering if the water is warm or if you’re about to belly-flop in front of the whole world. First things first: take a breath. You are exactly where you need to be. Whether you identify as a trans woman, a crossdresser, or s

Let me guess, you're reading this because there's a secret you've been carrying around, and it's starting to feel heavier by the day. Maybe you've rehearsed the conversation a thousand times in your head. Maybe you've almost said something, only to chicken out at the last second. Trust me, I've been there. In my latest episode of the My Girl Life podcast , I dove deep into one of the most nerve-wracking experiences many crossdressers and trans women face: telling a partner wh

Remember those dimly lit church basements? The folding metal chairs arranged in awkward circles? The strict 7 PM start time on the second Tuesday of every month? For decades, that was the lifeline for crossdressers and trans women seeking community and support, if you were brave enough to walk through that door. Here's the thing: I'm not here to trash traditional support groups. They saved lives. They gave people their first glimpse of acceptance when the rest of the world wa